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		<title>Comment on Should You Try And Find Your Long Lost Love? by freemanrockin</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Mar 2012 00:37:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well all I can say I did finally met and fell in love again with the girl of my dreams 30 years ago thru Facebook.  I did not expect it at first but after finding out that we were both free to love again, I finally got the courage to tell her what i could not tell her thirty years ago and it feels that there was no time lost between us.  We look forward to our future together with each other since we are continents apart right now.  So I&#039;d like you to know that there is hope in finding your long lost love after all.  For me it was worth the wait, we met again at the right moment in time.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well all I can say I did finally met and fell in love again with the girl of my dreams 30 years ago thru Facebook.  I did not expect it at first but after finding out that we were both free to love again, I finally got the courage to tell her what i could not tell her thirty years ago and it feels that there was no time lost between us.  We look forward to our future together with each other since we are continents apart right now.  So I&#8217;d like you to know that there is hope in finding your long lost love after all.  For me it was worth the wait, we met again at the right moment in time.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Should You Try And Find Your Long Lost Love? by admin</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Mar 2012 10:39:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Angela

I am very sorry that your relationship broke down.  It is a very sad story.

I hope in time you will meet someone new who will give you all the love and affection you deserve.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Angela</p>
<p>I am very sorry that your relationship broke down.  It is a very sad story.</p>
<p>I hope in time you will meet someone new who will give you all the love and affection you deserve.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Should You Try And Find Your Long Lost Love? by Angela</title>
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		<dc:creator>Angela</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Mar 2012 14:36:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My relationship broke down after my man was contacted by an old girdfriend from 35 years ago on facebook after some school reunion. They carried an online affair for ages and then his behaviour towards me deteriorated because he had &quot;feelings for her&quot; he said. So I let him go. Probably best for me you will say but I can tell you that facebook and school reunions have a lot to answer for....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My relationship broke down after my man was contacted by an old girdfriend from 35 years ago on facebook after some school reunion. They carried an online affair for ages and then his behaviour towards me deteriorated because he had &#8220;feelings for her&#8221; he said. So I let him go. Probably best for me you will say but I can tell you that facebook and school reunions have a lot to answer for&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Should You Try And Find Your Long Lost Love? by admin</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2012 22:29:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Lauren

My advice would be to keep the happy memory of this boy and leave it at that.  I am sure that in reality things would be very different.  People change and you are still very young.

In time there will be plenty of other nice boys in your life, so put the fantasy of this boy behind you and look to the future.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Lauren</p>
<p>My advice would be to keep the happy memory of this boy and leave it at that.  I am sure that in reality things would be very different.  People change and you are still very young.</p>
<p>In time there will be plenty of other nice boys in your life, so put the fantasy of this boy behind you and look to the future.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Should You Try And Find Your Long Lost Love? by Lauren</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lauren</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 01:27:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Let me start off by saying I am very young (13 years old ) and I don&#039;t think I know what love is yet. But in 5th grade, I met a boy who became my very close friend. He seemed to have a crush on me, but at the time, I was uninterested. He left at the end of 5th grade to another school and I never really got to say goodbye. We were too young to have any way to communicate, really. Now I&#039;m in 8th grade, and I haven&#039;t seen this boy in three years. But I think about him every day still. It just occurred to me that we were perfect for eachother. I don&#039;t know what to do. I don&#039;t know if I&#039;ll ever see him again and I don&#039;t want him to be the &quot;one that got away.&quot;  advice?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Let me start off by saying I am very young (13 years old ) and I don&#8217;t think I know what love is yet. But in 5th grade, I met a boy who became my very close friend. He seemed to have a crush on me, but at the time, I was uninterested. He left at the end of 5th grade to another school and I never really got to say goodbye. We were too young to have any way to communicate, really. Now I&#8217;m in 8th grade, and I haven&#8217;t seen this boy in three years. But I think about him every day still. It just occurred to me that we were perfect for eachother. I don&#8217;t know what to do. I don&#8217;t know if I&#8217;ll ever see him again and I don&#8217;t want him to be the &#8220;one that got away.&#8221;  advice?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Is Your Broken Relationship Worth Saving? by admin</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Jan 2012 22:19:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Chris

After reading your long message, I have to ask why you and your girlfriend are in a relationship together!

All you ever seem to do is to wind each other up and score points of each other.  Granted relationships have to be worked at, but you do not seem to be making each other happy, only miserable.

Life is too short to be wasting time and being unhappy.

If you cannot be happy together, then cut your losses and find someone new.  There are plenty of other girls in the world.

Good luck and be happy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Chris</p>
<p>After reading your long message, I have to ask why you and your girlfriend are in a relationship together!</p>
<p>All you ever seem to do is to wind each other up and score points of each other.  Granted relationships have to be worked at, but you do not seem to be making each other happy, only miserable.</p>
<p>Life is too short to be wasting time and being unhappy.</p>
<p>If you cannot be happy together, then cut your losses and find someone new.  There are plenty of other girls in the world.</p>
<p>Good luck and be happy.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2012 12:30:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Back again -.-
Had some rough patches over the last few months, but we had talked and decided that neither of us were putting enough effort into the relationship to actually do stuff that makes us happy. We were stuck in a rut of either going to each other’s houses 4-5 days a week just for a few hours and not really doing much, just, hanging out. Sex was barely once a week, &quot;going out&quot; would be pathetic stuff like going to a supermarket to just generally look around and burn some time. We (I Initiated the conversation after she told me I had changed and I’m not like I used to be) agreed we needed to actually do stuff like we used to at the start of our relationship. But that has now seemed to have stopped again.
Granted, she has Uni work/exams and her granddad has just been diagnosed with the big C, BUT, surely that&#039;s no reason to accuse me of &#039;suffocating&#039; her by calling her and texting her to ask if she is okay? Because I was worried about her emotional state and wanted to know if she needed anything?
Last night, we had an argument that sparked out of nowhere, can&#039;t even remember what it was about. I was driving her back to her house (she moved home and now commutes to Uni because it’s cheaper), she was telling me about some hench black guy who was messing one of her friends about and how her friends friend got with that guy and now she can&#039;t sit down because she&#039;s so sore... I wasn&#039;t particularly interested in that part of the story until she said that it’s a ‘fact’ that Asians are tighter... that sparked a little argument haha, but I was listening to her and taking in what she was saying.
AH just remembered, my dad works for an automobile tyre/exhaust/brake type company and my girlfriend needs her cars brakes changed and we had originally arranged to do it on Tuesday but couldn’t because parts weren&#039;t there, then changed it to Thursday (Today) UNTIL, my dad told me only an hour or so before the next argument about to flourish, that a guy was off sick so obviously couldn’t do the job so it had to be moved to Saturday instead. I forgot this until the journey back to her house when she asked about it and I said, &quot;oh yeah, can&#039;t do it tomorrow now...&quot;, before I could finish telling her and explain the situation and say that my dad will just take it in for her on Saturday: &quot;WHY HAVEN&#039;T YOU TOLD ME SOONER... MY MUM BLAHBLAHBLAH...&quot;! I got angry as my dad is going out of his way to get her the parts at a discount price and free fitting and was doing his best to fit her car into the company’s busy schedule and she is getting angry because I didn’t tell her soon enough??? I didn’t get angry at first but she carried on and eventually I snapped and shouted &quot;THE GUY IS OFF SICK AND CANT DO THE WORK FOR F***S SAKE!!!&quot;
The rest of the way back to hers was just silent. Got there and she originally wanted me to come in but she bluntly said &quot;see you later.&quot; I sarcastically replied &quot;wow. Okay then...&quot;
She said &quot;are you coming in or not? Because I want to watch my TV programme and I have already missed the beginning because of you.&quot;
I started to say &quot;I don’t know...&quot; expecting to try and resolve the situation and she just got out, walked to her house, went in and shut the door.
So, I just left. Went home.
Then get a text 5 minutes later &quot;You know how much of a crap time I’m going through at the moment, yet you&#039;re being the least bit supportive and you&#039;re making me miserable&quot;. I thought wow, after all the effort I have been putting in to be supportive over the last few months, that tiny little argument automatically disregards everything else.
I replied &quot;I don’t want to be around you when you&#039;re treating me like this. I haven&#039;t even done ANYTHING wrong!&quot;
I get &quot;The way you talk to me. When I was telling you about my friend you didn’t seem interested in what I was saying. Then you shouted at me. Maybe we should take some time apart&quot;
Again, whaaaat....??? Completely out of nowhere.
I explained how all of what she just said was ridiculous and I only shouted at her because she took something out on me that wasn’t my fault! Don’t shoot the messenger.
She then claims I’m not taking her seriously. I said to her I felt like she was trying to create problems and that maybe I should be suspicious of her...
&quot;I am not trying to create problems. All you do is flip it on to me. I have seen you change a lot recently, from your new obsession with other women in magazines and stuff to talking about your &#039;other GF&#039; a lot. I want you to make me happy but you&#039;re not. I am constantly in a state of misery.&quot;
Pretty strong wording right?
Firstly, I bought A magazine, ONE magazine. An issue of FHM. Where&#039;s the obsession?
Secondly, this &#039;other GF&#039; is something SHE started a few weeks ago!!! I now occasionally joke (because its 10000000000% not true :L) about it saying stupid things like how my &#039;other GF&#039; likes ... blahblahblah. Yet now she thinks I genuinely have another GF!!!
Back to the texts, I said that it felt to me that she had cheated and she was trying to shift her guilt by blaming all this stuff on me and accuse me of having another GF and she reacted &quot;Are you f****** kidding me? Who the F*** would I have cheated on you with? If you seriously think that, F*** You.&quot;
I explained that reacting like that will only make how I feel worse. She then said &quot;How dare you accuse me of that when you have absolutely no evidence. This is what I’m talking about. You know what a crap time I&#039;m having ATM, which is going to make me more sensitive. I need you and you&#039;re just not there for me.&quot;
I again replied by saying she&#039;s making it worse by detaching herself and getting defensive and turning it on me and I said that I have been there for her, ALL the time, but it seems like she just hasn&#039;t noticed it.
&quot;Again. You&#039;re always blaming me. Why don&#039;t you look at yourself for once? Why is it that you can never do anything wrong? Man up and take responsibility Chris. You&#039;re 21.&quot;
I literally sent this back, &quot;Hahaha! You&#039;re so deluded by your own hypocrisy, it&#039;s unreal. Clearly I’m just &quot;not a good enough boyfriend&quot;. Treading dangerous waters Abbie, careful what you say now&quot;. At the time I was thinking if she carried on like that, it’s over.
&quot;You always were. But you&#039;ve changed so much recently. Please don&#039;t threaten me Chris. I&#039;m being completely honest with you.&quot;
I didn’t read this text until an hour later as I had a nice relaxing bath! =]
But along with that text, I also find &quot;I love how I reply to your messages straight away. And you take over half an hour. Shows a lot.&quot; Then &quot;You&#039;re obviously too busy. Lol. And you say I’m treading dangerous waters? F****** joke. You have no idea how angry I am at you. Don&#039;t turn up at my house tomorrow as I have too much work to do.&quot; Followed by her twitter update of &quot;F***. YOU.&quot;
I sent back &quot;hah, I go for a bath and come back to this? THAT&#039;S a joke.&quot;
Which leaves me here, sat wondering what the hell this is all about! Am I missing something? Could there be somebody else or something that has happened and she is hiding from me? Or is she just being a mental b****? I’m really struggling to think of a reason why I should bother with her anymore, I just want to be happy, I don’t want to be happy 50% of the time and spend the other 50% angry, upset, feeling lost/unwanted.
That&#039;s another thing that&#039;s bugging me actually, she recently out of nowhere has gotten REALLY horny but hasn&#039;t tried to... initiate anything with me? This is really bugging me because I&#039;ve always had an old saying stuck in my head since I heard it a few years back, &quot;if she&#039;s not doing it with you, she&#039;s doing it with someone else...&quot;
Please can you enlighten me? The whole situation is beginning to affect other parts of my life.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Back again -.-<br />
Had some rough patches over the last few months, but we had talked and decided that neither of us were putting enough effort into the relationship to actually do stuff that makes us happy. We were stuck in a rut of either going to each other’s houses 4-5 days a week just for a few hours and not really doing much, just, hanging out. Sex was barely once a week, &#8220;going out&#8221; would be pathetic stuff like going to a supermarket to just generally look around and burn some time. We (I Initiated the conversation after she told me I had changed and I’m not like I used to be) agreed we needed to actually do stuff like we used to at the start of our relationship. But that has now seemed to have stopped again.<br />
Granted, she has Uni work/exams and her granddad has just been diagnosed with the big C, BUT, surely that&#8217;s no reason to accuse me of &#8216;suffocating&#8217; her by calling her and texting her to ask if she is okay? Because I was worried about her emotional state and wanted to know if she needed anything?<br />
Last night, we had an argument that sparked out of nowhere, can&#8217;t even remember what it was about. I was driving her back to her house (she moved home and now commutes to Uni because it’s cheaper), she was telling me about some hench black guy who was messing one of her friends about and how her friends friend got with that guy and now she can&#8217;t sit down because she&#8217;s so sore&#8230; I wasn&#8217;t particularly interested in that part of the story until she said that it’s a ‘fact’ that Asians are tighter&#8230; that sparked a little argument haha, but I was listening to her and taking in what she was saying.<br />
AH just remembered, my dad works for an automobile tyre/exhaust/brake type company and my girlfriend needs her cars brakes changed and we had originally arranged to do it on Tuesday but couldn’t because parts weren&#8217;t there, then changed it to Thursday (Today) UNTIL, my dad told me only an hour or so before the next argument about to flourish, that a guy was off sick so obviously couldn’t do the job so it had to be moved to Saturday instead. I forgot this until the journey back to her house when she asked about it and I said, &#8220;oh yeah, can&#8217;t do it tomorrow now&#8230;&#8221;, before I could finish telling her and explain the situation and say that my dad will just take it in for her on Saturday: &#8220;WHY HAVEN&#8217;T YOU TOLD ME SOONER&#8230; MY MUM BLAHBLAHBLAH&#8230;&#8221;! I got angry as my dad is going out of his way to get her the parts at a discount price and free fitting and was doing his best to fit her car into the company’s busy schedule and she is getting angry because I didn’t tell her soon enough??? I didn’t get angry at first but she carried on and eventually I snapped and shouted &#8220;THE GUY IS OFF SICK AND CANT DO THE WORK FOR F***S SAKE!!!&#8221;<br />
The rest of the way back to hers was just silent. Got there and she originally wanted me to come in but she bluntly said &#8220;see you later.&#8221; I sarcastically replied &#8220;wow. Okay then&#8230;&#8221;<br />
She said &#8220;are you coming in or not? Because I want to watch my TV programme and I have already missed the beginning because of you.&#8221;<br />
I started to say &#8220;I don’t know&#8230;&#8221; expecting to try and resolve the situation and she just got out, walked to her house, went in and shut the door.<br />
So, I just left. Went home.<br />
Then get a text 5 minutes later &#8220;You know how much of a crap time I’m going through at the moment, yet you&#8217;re being the least bit supportive and you&#8217;re making me miserable&#8221;. I thought wow, after all the effort I have been putting in to be supportive over the last few months, that tiny little argument automatically disregards everything else.<br />
I replied &#8220;I don’t want to be around you when you&#8217;re treating me like this. I haven&#8217;t even done ANYTHING wrong!&#8221;<br />
I get &#8220;The way you talk to me. When I was telling you about my friend you didn’t seem interested in what I was saying. Then you shouted at me. Maybe we should take some time apart&#8221;<br />
Again, whaaaat&#8230;.??? Completely out of nowhere.<br />
I explained how all of what she just said was ridiculous and I only shouted at her because she took something out on me that wasn’t my fault! Don’t shoot the messenger.<br />
She then claims I’m not taking her seriously. I said to her I felt like she was trying to create problems and that maybe I should be suspicious of her&#8230;<br />
&#8220;I am not trying to create problems. All you do is flip it on to me. I have seen you change a lot recently, from your new obsession with other women in magazines and stuff to talking about your &#8216;other GF&#8217; a lot. I want you to make me happy but you&#8217;re not. I am constantly in a state of misery.&#8221;<br />
Pretty strong wording right?<br />
Firstly, I bought A magazine, ONE magazine. An issue of FHM. Where&#8217;s the obsession?<br />
Secondly, this &#8216;other GF&#8217; is something SHE started a few weeks ago!!! I now occasionally joke (because its 10000000000% not true :L) about it saying stupid things like how my &#8216;other GF&#8217; likes &#8230; blahblahblah. Yet now she thinks I genuinely have another GF!!!<br />
Back to the texts, I said that it felt to me that she had cheated and she was trying to shift her guilt by blaming all this stuff on me and accuse me of having another GF and she reacted &#8220;Are you f****** kidding me? Who the F*** would I have cheated on you with? If you seriously think that, F*** You.&#8221;<br />
I explained that reacting like that will only make how I feel worse. She then said &#8220;How dare you accuse me of that when you have absolutely no evidence. This is what I’m talking about. You know what a crap time I&#8217;m having ATM, which is going to make me more sensitive. I need you and you&#8217;re just not there for me.&#8221;<br />
I again replied by saying she&#8217;s making it worse by detaching herself and getting defensive and turning it on me and I said that I have been there for her, ALL the time, but it seems like she just hasn&#8217;t noticed it.<br />
&#8220;Again. You&#8217;re always blaming me. Why don&#8217;t you look at yourself for once? Why is it that you can never do anything wrong? Man up and take responsibility Chris. You&#8217;re 21.&#8221;<br />
I literally sent this back, &#8220;Hahaha! You&#8217;re so deluded by your own hypocrisy, it&#8217;s unreal. Clearly I’m just &#8220;not a good enough boyfriend&#8221;. Treading dangerous waters Abbie, careful what you say now&#8221;. At the time I was thinking if she carried on like that, it’s over.<br />
&#8220;You always were. But you&#8217;ve changed so much recently. Please don&#8217;t threaten me Chris. I&#8217;m being completely honest with you.&#8221;<br />
I didn’t read this text until an hour later as I had a nice relaxing bath! =]<br />
But along with that text, I also find &#8220;I love how I reply to your messages straight away. And you take over half an hour. Shows a lot.&#8221; Then &#8220;You&#8217;re obviously too busy. Lol. And you say I’m treading dangerous waters? F****** joke. You have no idea how angry I am at you. Don&#8217;t turn up at my house tomorrow as I have too much work to do.&#8221; Followed by her twitter update of &#8220;F***. YOU.&#8221;<br />
I sent back &#8220;hah, I go for a bath and come back to this? THAT&#8217;S a joke.&#8221;<br />
Which leaves me here, sat wondering what the hell this is all about! Am I missing something? Could there be somebody else or something that has happened and she is hiding from me? Or is she just being a mental b****? I’m really struggling to think of a reason why I should bother with her anymore, I just want to be happy, I don’t want to be happy 50% of the time and spend the other 50% angry, upset, feeling lost/unwanted.<br />
That&#8217;s another thing that&#8217;s bugging me actually, she recently out of nowhere has gotten REALLY horny but hasn&#8217;t tried to&#8230; initiate anything with me? This is really bugging me because I&#8217;ve always had an old saying stuck in my head since I heard it a few years back, &#8220;if she&#8217;s not doing it with you, she&#8217;s doing it with someone else&#8230;&#8221;<br />
Please can you enlighten me? The whole situation is beginning to affect other parts of my life.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Is Your Broken Relationship Worth Saving? by admin</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2012 22:07:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Lady

Your relationship seems very troubled and complicated.  I really think you need to step back a bit and have some space from your relationship so you can think things through properly.  

If you can get away on your own for a while I think it will help you to get a proper prospective on your relationship.  Perhaps if you can stay with some friends or relatives for a couple of weeks it will help you to see things more clearly.  When you are in a situation it is difficult to get a grip on things.

So my advice would be to take a step back and cut off all contact with your boyfriend for a while.       Explain to him that you need some time to yourself.  If he is half decent he will be understanding and give you the time and space you need.

I wish you all the best.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Lady</p>
<p>Your relationship seems very troubled and complicated.  I really think you need to step back a bit and have some space from your relationship so you can think things through properly.  </p>
<p>If you can get away on your own for a while I think it will help you to get a proper prospective on your relationship.  Perhaps if you can stay with some friends or relatives for a couple of weeks it will help you to see things more clearly.  When you are in a situation it is difficult to get a grip on things.</p>
<p>So my advice would be to take a step back and cut off all contact with your boyfriend for a while.       Explain to him that you need some time to yourself.  If he is half decent he will be understanding and give you the time and space you need.</p>
<p>I wish you all the best.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Is Your Broken Relationship Worth Saving? by lady</title>
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		<dc:creator>lady</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Jan 2012 18:37:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hi..
i need your advice
here is short of my story
im dating an overseas man.. i knw him since 2008 and start relation on 2010.. now its almost 2 years relation.. we love each other but as we are young couple, im 21 and he is 27,
we still act childish, with so much big jealouse, over protective and something like that.. both of us are stone.. we had more than 10 times tryin to break up with so much causes
first, his family doesnt know me and his parents abit strict as they only want their son marry to same race (cultural)
second, he will not stay in my country forever but so far we try to find the way how to be together forever
third, more than third times unknown people inform me that my bf was goin to marry with someone in his country n its still in process (arranged marriage), but my bf said that is only a gossip (but after some months, my bf told me , the fact is he planned to marry with a girl in his country , she was his first love, his family really want him to marry that girl,,,, thats why before he leave, he said that, when he back to his own country , he will marry that girl but unfortunately after 3 years.. they lost contact.. the girl gettin busy in university and the boy gettin busy with his work.. right at that time, i met him.. and start relation
when he came back to his country.. he still tried to get back that girl and made up (my relation with him only 4 months) but the girl refused him coz of some missunderstanding (the girl might heard something about me), now my bf wont let me go coz he knows i love him more than anything and no one could love him as much as i do, he loves me too now but his family still wants him to marry with that girl)
we always fight for small thing n everytime we fight, i always start talkin about that arranged marriage.. and day by day,, our relation getting crazy.. so hard to trust each other.. all in our head is only big question mark,
me (does he really love me? is the arranged marriage really over? does he really forget that girl?)
my bf (when will she trust me? will my family accept her? can we be together? and blah)
since that time , i started thinkin that our relation is actually has broken.. but we still cant let go of each other.. my bf always warning me, if i cant trust him, and we cant stop fighting, he will start lookin for a girl only to hurt me.. because so far he cant leave me.. he tried but the more he try the more i run to take him back and at the end, he let himself fall again into my arms.. when everything was gettin okay once i found its real what he had said, i found he was tryin to talk to random girls, start talkin naughty with them in message.. im so messed up..
but then my bf explained me &quot;i was tryin to leave you but u wont stop fight for me.. i was crazy thinkin of this fuckin relation, i dont know how to make you hate me, thats why i talk to them and i was planning to show you that im with so many girls now only to make you stop holding me because this relation gives me so much thought but once again you take me back to your arms n i cant hurt you.. i back again to you.. you win.. please forgive me.. i love you

that is the last time i fight with him.. im so broken but we still together.. i love him</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hi..<br />
i need your advice<br />
here is short of my story<br />
im dating an overseas man.. i knw him since 2008 and start relation on 2010.. now its almost 2 years relation.. we love each other but as we are young couple, im 21 and he is 27,<br />
we still act childish, with so much big jealouse, over protective and something like that.. both of us are stone.. we had more than 10 times tryin to break up with so much causes<br />
first, his family doesnt know me and his parents abit strict as they only want their son marry to same race (cultural)<br />
second, he will not stay in my country forever but so far we try to find the way how to be together forever<br />
third, more than third times unknown people inform me that my bf was goin to marry with someone in his country n its still in process (arranged marriage), but my bf said that is only a gossip (but after some months, my bf told me , the fact is he planned to marry with a girl in his country , she was his first love, his family really want him to marry that girl,,,, thats why before he leave, he said that, when he back to his own country , he will marry that girl but unfortunately after 3 years.. they lost contact.. the girl gettin busy in university and the boy gettin busy with his work.. right at that time, i met him.. and start relation<br />
when he came back to his country.. he still tried to get back that girl and made up (my relation with him only 4 months) but the girl refused him coz of some missunderstanding (the girl might heard something about me), now my bf wont let me go coz he knows i love him more than anything and no one could love him as much as i do, he loves me too now but his family still wants him to marry with that girl)<br />
we always fight for small thing n everytime we fight, i always start talkin about that arranged marriage.. and day by day,, our relation getting crazy.. so hard to trust each other.. all in our head is only big question mark,<br />
me (does he really love me? is the arranged marriage really over? does he really forget that girl?)<br />
my bf (when will she trust me? will my family accept her? can we be together? and blah)<br />
since that time , i started thinkin that our relation is actually has broken.. but we still cant let go of each other.. my bf always warning me, if i cant trust him, and we cant stop fighting, he will start lookin for a girl only to hurt me.. because so far he cant leave me.. he tried but the more he try the more i run to take him back and at the end, he let himself fall again into my arms.. when everything was gettin okay once i found its real what he had said, i found he was tryin to talk to random girls, start talkin naughty with them in message.. im so messed up..<br />
but then my bf explained me &#8220;i was tryin to leave you but u wont stop fight for me.. i was crazy thinkin of this fuckin relation, i dont know how to make you hate me, thats why i talk to them and i was planning to show you that im with so many girls now only to make you stop holding me because this relation gives me so much thought but once again you take me back to your arms n i cant hurt you.. i back again to you.. you win.. please forgive me.. i love you</p>
<p>that is the last time i fight with him.. im so broken but we still together.. i love him</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Dec 2011 08:49:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post. I like the concept of doing small things to mend a broken heart. It simply takes small actions over time to get past a break up.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post. I like the concept of doing small things to mend a broken heart. It simply takes small actions over time to get past a break up.</p>
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